"There is a war on children.
The devaluing of motherhood, family, strong men and parental rights is an organized attack on our children infiltrating all of our institutions - including family court"
- MetooMoms
OVERVIEW AND MISSION STATEMENT
MetooMoms is an independent journalism, watchdog and whistleblower group that conducts investigative and undercover reporting on child abuse cover-ups - with a focus on the Family Court and associated private and public institutions - who have created a parasitic and opportunistic repugnant market in cases of child abuse - prioritizing profit over protection.
A $56 billion dollar a year child abuse, child trafficking and racketeering operation - THE BIGGEST THREAT TO AMERICAN CHILDREN THAT NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT - The Family Court Crisis.
There is a war on children that will not stop without Moms and Dads actively engaged in oversight of our public and private institutions as our civic duty and responsibility for the safety of our children. There is an organized agenda coming for our children, infiltrating all of our institutions - devaluing motherhood, family, strong men, parental rights, freedom and patriotism.
While there is a very public debate about the war on children and interrelated topics such as: child trafficking at the border, medical freedom - masking and vaccines, the sexualization of children - "trans-kids", drag shows pedophiles, the attack on masculinity, freedom of speech, the devaluing of motherhood and the backlash against patriotism - there is a media blackout on the family court crisis - a $56 billion dollar a year child abuse, child trafficking and racketeering operation - THE BIGGEST THREAT TO AMERICAN CHILDREN THAT NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT.
As the most well organized and largest child abuse and trafficking operation of American children, hidden in plain sight and censored by the mainstream media - social engineers, profiteers, child abusers, pedophile activists and useful idiots collaborate under the cover of "professional associations" and "trade organizations" that have infiltrated the Family Court system - creating a national enterprise of court ordered Profit Over Protection of children.
Trade organizations like the AFCC grew out of the debunked "Parental Alienation Theory", created by self-appointed Family Court "expert", quack-psychologist and pedophile Richard Gardner . Gardner was influenced by the controversial Nazi collaborator, Alfred Kinsey, who sexually abused children - especially boys - from infancy to adolescence as "psychological research". Alienation theory asserts children are born sexual, seduce adults, incest is normal in other cultures and it is only the over-reaction of the Judeo-Christian culture that casts incest in a negative light that creates unnecessary trauma for children.
Gardner's book "Sex Abuse Hysteria: Salem Witch Trials Revisited" compares parental and societal outrage and demand for consequences for incest and child abuse to "hysteria" and "witch trials". Gardner followers claim reporting and protecting your child from abuse - including child sexual abuse - is the "REAL" abuse" called "alienation" as the child wants and needs to have a relationship with the abusing parent and the "alienator" who thinks they're protecting the child is the "real abuser" since their unnecessary hysteria and "bad mouthing" (reporting) is damaging the relationship between their child and the incesting or abusing parent. If this sounds like Orwellian double speak straight out of the book 1984 - it is.
"Parental Alienation" is so ridiculous it is not recognized by any Psychological licensing board. It is only "diagnosed" in family courts and its followers remain firmly in place because it has proven to be a highly profitable formula. Here's how it works: Separation of children from the safe parent and placing them in the sole care of the unsafe parent keeps one parent fighting to protect themselves from repercussions and the other parent fighting for protection of and contact with the children. Eventually the attorney and court connected "professionals" fees are so high, the court will force the sale of the family home - both parents property and assets will be reallocated and redistributed among the "professionals".
While there is a larger social engineering agenda at work, useful idiots have been co-opted by their own greed to enact a scheme targeting Family Court cases where children are subject to abuse, including child sexual abuse. A $56 billion dollar a year "Family Court Industrial Complex" has emerged and is operating as a behind the scenes syndicate in many parts of the country, using the cover of a legitimate "Family Court" while engaging in corruption, dishonesty, self-dealing, fraud, and other misconduct.
Parents who attempt to protect their children are retaliated against, bankrupt, subject to years long litigation through intentional incitement of further conflict, smear campaigns, hostile litigation tactics, litigation abuse, deprived of basic civil procedure and due process, subject to emotional and psychological torture as courts cut off all contact between the children and their protective parent, invasive and subjective pseudo-psychological evaluations and assessments and "threat therapy" - all in a highly coordinated, unconscionable playbook developed by the trade associations and used by by our tax-payer funded public servants and their court connected fee-for-service providers.
Custody evaluators and psychologists who are part of the syndicate further deprive parents of their legal rights and prolong the process by giving the false appearance of a neutral arbiter and "qualified" assessor of the "best interest of the child", but instead act as a mechanism for parents to unwittingly stipulate to the substitution of the law for "therapeutic jurisprudence" where the subjective opinion of quack pseudo-psychologists with quasi-judicial immunity replaces the constitutional and legal rights of children and parents and racks up bills of $60,000 - $90,000 dollars or more for subjective "custody evaluations" - many times ordering them to stay in the system for years of invasive "monitoring", further court ordered fee-for service "alienation therapy", supervised visitation and other unconstitutional court ordered surveillance such as "reunification camps" which force children into a hotel room with their abuser for a $40,000 long weekend where they are "disempowered" and threatened if they do not recant their reports of abuse they will never see their safe parent again.
Quotes from Family Court "Expert" quack Richard Gardner ( full article with citations )
The vast majority ("probably over 95%") of all sex abuse allegations are valid.
"There is a bit of pedophilia in every one of us."
"Pedophilia has been considered the norm by the vast majority of individuals in the history of the world." Similarly, "intrafamilial pedophilia (that is, incest) is widespread and ... is probably an ancient tradition"
"It is because our society overreacts to it [pedophilia] that children suffer."
Pedophilia "is a widespread and accepted practice among literally billions of people."
Gardner suggests that children want to have sex with adults and may seduce them:
Some children experience "high sexual urges in early infancy."
"There is good reason to believe that most, if not all, children have the capacity to reach orgasm at the time they are born."
Children are naturally sexual and may initiate sexual encounters by "seducing" the adult .
If the sexual relationship is discovered, "the child is likely to fabricate so that the adult will be blamed for the initiation ."
"The normal child exhibits a wide variety of sexual fantasies and behaviors, many of which would be labeled as 'sick' or 'perverted' if exhibited by adults"
Sex abuse is not necessarily traumatic; the determinant as to whether sexual molestation will be traumatic to the child, is the social attitude toward these encounters.
Gardner on therapy with children who are sexually abused by their father
Keep the child connected to the abuser
Special care should be taken not to alienate the child from the molesting parent.
Tell the child that sexual abuse by a father is normal
Older children may be helped to appreciate that sexual encounters between an adult and a child are not universally considered to be reprehensible acts. The child might be told about other societies in which such behavior was and is considered normal. The child might be helped to appreciate the wisdom of Shakespeare's Hamlet, who said, "Nothing's either good or bad, but thinking makes it so."
"In such discussions the child has to be helped to appreciate that we have in our society an exaggeratedly punitive and moralistic attitude about adult-child sexual encounters"
Gardner on mothers who discover that their husband is sexually abusing their child
Gardner blames the father's abuse on the mother, who he faults for not fulfilling her husband sexually. He suggests that therapists should help mother's of incest victims achieve sexual gratification.
Discourage litigation.
Encourage her to stay with her husband (the abuser)
Blame her and the daughter for the sexual abuse by the father
"It may be that one of the reasons the daughter turned toward the father is the impairment of the child's relationship with the mother"
Help her get over her anger at her husband for sexually abusing their child.
"If the mother has reacted to the abuse in a hysterical fashion, or used it as an excuse for a campaign of denigration of the father, then the therapist does well to try and "sober her up".... Her hysterics ... will contribute to the child's feeling that a heinous crime has been committed and will thereby lessen the likelihood of any kind of rapproachment with the father. One has to do everything possible to help her put the "crime" in proper perspective. She has to be helped to appreciate that in most societies in the history of the world, such behavior was ubiquitous [i.e., everywhere], and this is still the case."
"Perhaps she can be helped to appreciate that in the history of the world his behavior has probably been more common than the restrained behavior of those who do not sexually abuse their children."
Gardner on fathers who sexually abuse their children
Tell him what he did his normal
"He has to be helped to appreciate that, even today, it [pedophilia] is a widespread and accepted practice among literally billions of people. He has to appreciate that in our Western society especially, we take a very punitive and moralistic attitude toward such inclinations. He has had a certain amount of back (sic) luck with regard to the place and time he was born with regard to social attitudes toward pedophilia."
He has had bad luck with regard to the place and time he was born with regard to social attitudes toward pedophilia. However, these are not reasons to condemn himself.
Keep him in the home
The removal of a pedophilic parent from the home "should only be seriously considered after all attempts at treatment of the pedophilia and rapprochement with the family have proven futile"
Help him protect himself
"He must learn to control himself if he is to protect himself from the Draconian punishments meted out to those in our society who act out their pedophilic impulses."
Help him forget about it
Therapy with the father should not be spent focusing on the primary problem (I.e., sexual molestation). Instead, therapy should be spent "talking about other things" as the goal of therapy is "to help people forget about their problems"
Gardner on how society should respond to the widespread victimization of children
Take a more sympathetic view toward pedophilia
"One of the steps that society must take to deal with the present hysteria is to 'come off it' and take a more realistic attitude toward pedophilic behavior."
"The Draconian punishments meted out to pedophiles .go far beyond what I consider to be the gravity of the crime."
Child abuse allegations are the "third-greatest wave of hysteria" the nation has seen, following the Salem witch trials and the McCarthyite persecution of leftists.
"We are currently living in dangerous times, similar to Nazi Germany. Sexual abuse hysteria is omnipresent."
Who is to Blame for "Child Abuse Hysteria"?
People who voice negative feelings against pedophiles
"During their harangues against the 'perverts' who are the objects of their scorn, they often rise to a level of excitation that can readily be seen as sexual. . . . Psychological, such individuals are ever fighting to repress their own unacceptable pedophilic impulses, which are continually pressing for release."
The legal system - including judges
"There is no question that abuse cases are "turn ons" for the wide variety of individuals involved in them, the accuser(s), the prosecutors, the lawyers, the judges , the evaluators, the psychologists, the reporters, the readers of the newspapers, and everyone else involved - except for the falsely accused and the innocent victim .. Everyone is getting their 'jollies, ."
Judges
"too may have repressed pedophilic impulses over which there is suppression, repression, and guilt. Inquiry into the details of the case provides voyeuristic and vicarious gratifications .. Incarcerating the alleged perpetrator may serve psychologically to obliterate the judge's own projected pedophilic impulses."
Sexually inhibited mothers
"The mother is psychologically gratifying [her own sexually inhibited needs] with the visual imagery that the sex abuse allegation provides."
Greedy parents
"Many are victims of their greed, which is so enormous that they blind themselves to the psychological traumas they are subjecting their children to in the service of winning lawsuits that promise them enormous wealth."
Judeo-Christian principles
"It is of interest that of all the ancient peoples it may very well be that the Jews were the only ones who were punitive toward pedophiles.. Our present overreaction to pedophilia represents an exaggeration of Judeo-Christian principles and is a significant factor operative in Western society's atypicality with regard to such activities
THE AMERICAN PUBIC NEEDS TO KNOW
"ALIENATION" IS USED IN AMERICAN FAMILY COURTS EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. RESULTING IN OVER 2 MILLION AMERICAN CHILDREN BEING REMOVED FROM THE CUSTODY OF THEIR PROTECTIVE PARENT. In many parts of the country, Judges, Attorneys, Guardian Ad Litems, Custody Evaluators, Court Connected "Therapists", Supervised Visitation Centers, Police Departments and CPS Workers are ALL trained in some form of "alienation" theory or repackaged, more palatable form of dismissing children's reports of abuse and labeling the protective parent as "hysterical" or not credible. Protective parents believe that their children will be protected by our tax-payer funded institutions, instead they find themselves and their children in a dystopian sci-fi nightmare.
SILICON VALLEY IS THE HOTSPOT AND HEADQUARTERS OF PARENTAL ALIENATION
Mission Statement
MetooMoms brings to the American people the corrupt private truths hidden behind the walls of Family Court and it's associated institutions and individual bad actors.
MetooMoms goal is to expose corruption, leaders resign, and organizations shut down. We intend to bring about successful impacts at the local, state and national levels: ending federal funding of Family Courts who engage in misconduct and corruption and expose bad actors who seem to have forgotten their oath of office and role as taxpayer funded public servants - to protect children and to protect the constitutional and legal rights of all citizens.
MetooMoms does not advocate specific resolutions to the issues. Our goal is to inform the public of wrongdoing and allow the public to make judgments on the issues. We do NOT support most legislation. If the current bad actors were following the existing law, no new legislation would be necessary. A LIMITED, CONSTITUTIONAL GOVERNMENT with the civic engagement of the people, exposure and intolerance of corruption would resolve the Family Court Crisis. MOTHERS ENGAGED IN CIVIC PARTICIPATION AND OVERSIGHT OF PUBLIC AND PRIVATE INSTITUTIONS IS NO LONGER OPTIONAL, BUT A REQUIREMENT FOR THE PROTECTION OF OUR CHILDREN AND OUR FUTURE.
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Mission Statement
THE MISSION OF MetooMoms IS TO INVESTIGATE AND EXPOSE FAMILY COURT AND RELATED ENTITIES AND INDIVIDUALS CORRUPTION, DISHONESTY, SELF-DEALING, FRAUD, AND OTHER MISCONDUCT IN BOTH PUBLIC AND PRIVATE INSTITUTIONS THAT FAIL TO PROTECT CHILDREN, PROFIT FROM CHILD ABUSE AND VIOLATE THE LEGAL RIGHTS OF PARENTS IN ORDER TO ACHIEVE A MORE ETHICAL AND TRANSPARENT SOCIETY. ALSO ENGAGE IN LITIGATION TO: PROTECT, DEFEND AND EXPAND HUMAN AND CIVIL RIGHTS OF CHILDREN AND PARENTS SECURED BY LAW, SPECIFICALLY THE FOURTEENTH AMENDMENT RIGHTS TO A FAMILY, LEGAL PROTECTIONS REGARDING DOMESTIC ABUSE, ACCOUNTABILITY OF INSTITUTIONS WHO RECEIVE VAWA FUNDING; COMBAT AND DEFEAT CENSORSHIP OF REPORTING ON INSTITUTIONAL AND JUDICIAL ABUSE OF POWER; PROMOTE TRUTHFUL REPORTING; AND DEFEND FREEDOM OF SPEECH AND ASSOCIATION ISSUES INCLUDING THE RIGHT TO ANONYMITY.
MetooMoms Core Values
1. MORAL COURAGE - Courage is the virtue that sustains all others. We choose to overcome our fears.
2. WE ARE ALL LEADERS - Turning survivors corruption into leaders that achieve a more ethical and transparent society.
3. COLLABORATION - No one individual is alone. There is strength in unity.
4. RESILIENCE - Persistence and determination are omnipotent. Never, ever, ever give up. We don't let mistakes or setbacks discourage us. Don't let the pursuit of perfection be the enemy of the good.
6. MISSION DRIVEN - The best people are motivated by purpose. We are passionate and truly believe in our cause. We must be externally focused, not internally focused. NO mother or Child left behind. When freedom is violated for one, freedom is violated for all.
7. MAKE THE STATUS QUO DO THE IMPOSSIBLE - We move mountains. Failure is not an option.
8. THE TIP OF THE SPEAR - We report what major media covers-up. We do not shy away from conflict or litigation.
MetooMoms Ethical Values
(adopted from Project Veritas and adjusted for MetooMoms)
Rule #1 – Truth is paramount. Our reporting is fact based with clear and irrefutable video and audio content. Truth is paramount. We never deceive our audience. We do not distort the facts or the context. We do not “selectively edit.”
Rule #2 – We do not break the law. We maintain one-party consent when recording someone is inherently moral and ethical. We never record when there is zero-party consent. In areas where we are required to have consent from all parties, we seek legal guidance regarding the expectation of privacy’s impact on our right to record.
Rule #3 – We adhere to the 1st Amendment rights of others. During our investigations we do not disrupt the peace. We do not infringe on the 1st Amendment rights of others.
Rule #4 – The Zekman Test. The undercover investigations we pursue are judged by us to be of “vital public interest” and “profound importance.” The Zekman Test is our baseline. Undercover investigative reporting is necessary because, “...there’s no other way to get the story...” Whereas the Society of Professional Journalists allows for undercover techniques, if undercover techniques are necessary to expose issues of vital public importance; we believe they are not only allowed but required.
Rule #5 – We Protect the Innocent When Possible - Embarrassing private details are not to be investigated. We stay away from irrelevant embarrassingly intimate details about private citizens personal lives. We look for individual wrong-doing and judge its public importance. The irrelevant religious or sexual dispositions of our targets are not to be investigated.
Rule #6 – Transparency. Our methods and tactics must be reasonable and defensible. We use the “Twelve Jurors on Our Shoulder” rule. The work has to be done with such a degree of integrity that it can withstand scrutiny in both law and ethics. We are comfortable with transparency. We must be willing to be ready to disclose our methods upon publication.
Rule #7 – Verifying and Corroborate Stories – Evaluate impact on third parties and Newsworthiness of Statements Alone. We consistently consider the probable truth or falsity of statements, examine any reasons to doubt the veracity of underlying assertions and whether the assertions are newsworthy. When possible, we will confirm with our subjects that their statements captured on video are accurate and truthful. At the very least, we will give our subjects an opportunity to elaborate and/or respond. In all matters, we rely on the 1st Amendment to protect our ability to publish newsworthy items after our internal deliberations. On whether there is an obligation to ensure the veracity of statements made on video, 1.) consider whether the remarks may potentially impact an innocent third party. (Factors in support of releasing the content) and 2.)The Newsworthiness of the statement alone by itself. (Factors against releasing the content).
Rule #8 – Raw Video. In certain circumstances we may release the “raw” video to the press and or the public. But as a rule, we do not.
Rule #9 – Subject Anonymity. We investigate and question sources before promising anonymity. Once we confirm, we will do everything in our power to protect the identity of our confidential sources.
Rule #10 – Being Accountable. Admit mistakes and correct them promptly.
Rule #11 – We do not manufacture content. We do not put words in our investigative subjects' mouths. We do not lead the horse to water. Our purpose is to elicit truth.
Rule #12 - We Partner With Good Men. We are not in a battle against men. We expose corrupt men AND WOMEN who use their positions of power for profit at the expense of children.
Rule #13 – With Great Power comes Great Responsibility.
A $56 billion dollar a year child abuse, child trafficking and racketeering operation - THE BIGGEST THREAT TO AMERICAN CHILDREN THAT NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT - The Family Court Crisis.
There is a war on children that will not stop without Moms and Dads actively engaged in oversight of our public and private institutions as our civic duty and responsibility for the safety of our children. There is an organized agenda coming for our children, infiltrating all of our institutions - devaluing motherhood, family, strong men, parental rights, freedom and patriotism.
While there is a very public debate about the war on children and interrelated topics such as: child trafficking at the border, medical freedom - masking and vaccines, the sexualization of children - "trans-kids", drag shows pedophiles, the attack on masculinity, freedom of speech, the devaluing of motherhood and the backlash against patriotism - there is a media blackout on the family court crisis - a $56 billion dollar a year child abuse, child trafficking and racketeering operation - THE BIGGEST THREAT TO AMERICAN CHILDREN THAT NO ONE IS TALKING ABOUT.
As the most well organized and largest child abuse and trafficking operation of American children, hidden in plain sight and censored by the mainstream media - social engineers, profiteers, child abusers, pedophile activists and useful idiots collaborate under the cover of "professional associations" and "trade organizations" that have infiltrated the Family Court system - creating a national enterprise of court ordered Profit Over Protection of children.
Trade organizations like the AFCC grew out of the debunked "Parental Alienation Theory", created by self-appointed Family Court "expert", quack-psychologist and pedophile Richard Gardner . Gardner was influenced by the controversial Nazi collaborator, Alfred Kinsey, who sexually abused children - especially boys - from infancy to adolescence as "psychological research". Alienation theory asserts children are born sexual, seduce adults, incest is normal in other cultures and it is only the over-reaction of the Judeo-Christian culture that casts incest in a negative light that creates unnecessary trauma for children.
Gardner's book "Sex Abuse Hysteria: Salem Witch Trials Revisited" compares parental and societal outrage and demand for consequences for incest and child abuse to "hysteria" and "witch trials". Gardner followers claim reporting and protecting your child from abuse - including child sexual abuse - is the "REAL" abuse" called "alienation" as the child wants and needs to have a relationship with the abusing parent and the "alienator" who thinks they're protecting the child is the "real abuser" since their unnecessary hysteria and "bad mouthing" (reporting) is damaging the relationship between their child and the incesting or abusing parent. If this sounds like Orwellian double speak straight out of the book 1984 - it is.
"Parental Alienation" is so ridiculous it is not recognized by any Psychological licensing board. It is only "diagnosed" in family courts and its followers remain firmly in place because it has proven to be a highly profitable formula. Here's how it works: Separation of children from the safe parent and placing them in the sole care of the unsafe parent keeps one parent fighting to protect themselves from repercussions and the other parent fighting for protection of and contact with the children. Eventually the attorney and court connected "professionals" fees are so high, the court will force the sale of the family home - both parents property and assets will be reallocated and redistributed among the "professionals".
While there is a larger social engineering agenda at work, useful idiots have been co-opted by their own greed to enact a scheme targeting Family Court cases where children are subject to abuse, including child sexual abuse. A $56 billion dollar a year "Family Court Industrial Complex" has emerged and is operating as a behind the scenes syndicate in many parts of the country, using the cover of a legitimate "Family Court" while engaging in corruption, dishonesty, self-dealing, fraud, and other misconduct.
Parents who attempt to protect their children are retaliated against, bankrupt, subject to years long litigation through intentional incitement of further conflict, smear campaigns, hostile litigation tactics, litigation abuse, deprived of basic civil procedure and due process, subject to emotional and psychological torture as courts cut off all contact between the children and their protective parent, invasive and subjective pseudo-psychological evaluations and assessments and "threat therapy" - all in a highly coordinated, unconscionable playbook developed by the trade associations and used by by our tax-payer funded public servants and their court connected fee-for-service providers.
Custody evaluators and psychologists who are part of the syndicate further deprive parents of their legal rights and prolong the process by giving the false appearance of a neutral arbiter and "qualified" assessor of the "best interest of the child", but instead act as a mechanism for parents to unwittingly stipulate to the substitution of the law for "therapeutic jurisprudence" where the subjective opinion of quack pseudo-psychologists with quasi-judicial immunity replaces the constitutional and legal rights of children and parents and racks up bills of $60,000 - $90,000 dollars or more for subjective "custody evaluations" - many times ordering them to stay in the system for years of invasive "monitoring", further court ordered fee-for service "alienation therapy", supervised visitation and other unconstitutional court ordered surveillance such as "reunification camps" which force children into a hotel room with their abuser for a $40,000 long weekend where they are "disempowered" and threatened if they do not recant their reports of abuse they will never see their safe parent again.
Quotes from Family Court "Expert" quack Richard Gardner ( full article with citations )
The vast majority ("probably over 95%") of all sex abuse allegations are valid.
"There is a bit of pedophilia in every one of us."
"Pedophilia has been considered the norm by the vast majority of individuals in the history of the world." Similarly, "intrafamilial pedophilia (that is, incest) is widespread and ... is probably an ancient tradition"
"It is because our society overreacts to it [pedophilia] that children suffer."
Pedophilia "is a widespread and accepted practice among literally billions of people."
Gardner suggests that children want to have sex with adults and may seduce them:
Some children experience "high sexual urges in early infancy."
"There is good reason to believe that most, if not all, children have the capacity to reach orgasm at the time they are born."
Children are naturally sexual and may initiate sexual encounters by "seducing" the adult .
If the sexual relationship is discovered, "the child is likely to fabricate so that the adult will be blamed for the initiation ."
"The normal child exhibits a wide variety of sexual fantasies and behaviors, many of which would be labeled as 'sick' or 'perverted' if exhibited by adults"
Sex abuse is not necessarily traumatic; the determinant as to whether sexual molestation will be traumatic to the child, is the social attitude toward these encounters.
Gardner on therapy with children who are sexually abused by their father
Keep the child connected to the abuser
Special care should be taken not to alienate the child from the molesting parent.
Tell the child that sexual abuse by a father is normal
Older children may be helped to appreciate that sexual encounters between an adult and a child are not universally considered to be reprehensible acts. The child might be told about other societies in which such behavior was and is considered normal. The child might be helped to appreciate the wisdom of Shakespeare's Hamlet, who said, "Nothing's either good or bad, but thinking makes it so."
"In such discussions the child has to be helped to appreciate that we have in our society an exaggeratedly punitive and moralistic attitude about adult-child sexual encounters"
Gardner on mothers who discover that their husband is sexually abusing their child
Gardner blames the father's abuse on the mother, who he faults for not fulfilling her husband sexually. He suggests that therapists should help mother's of incest victims achieve sexual gratification.
Discourage litigation.
Encourage her to stay with her husband (the abuser)
Blame her and the daughter for the sexual abuse by the father
"It may be that one of the reasons the daughter turned toward the father is the impairment of the child's relationship with the mother"
Help her get over her anger at her husband for sexually abusing their child.
"If the mother has reacted to the abuse in a hysterical fashion, or used it as an excuse for a campaign of denigration of the father, then the therapist does well to try and "sober her up".... Her hysterics ... will contribute to the child's feeling that a heinous crime has been committed and will thereby lessen the likelihood of any kind of rapproachment with the father. One has to do everything possible to help her put the "crime" in proper perspective. She has to be helped to appreciate that in most societies in the history of the world, such behavior was ubiquitous [i.e., everywhere], and this is still the case."
"Perhaps she can be helped to appreciate that in the history of the world his behavior has probably been more common than the restrained behavior of those who do not sexually abuse their children."
Gardner on fathers who sexually abuse their children
Tell him what he did his normal
"He has to be helped to appreciate that, even today, it [pedophilia] is a widespread and accepted practice among literally billions of people. He has to appreciate that in our Western society especially, we take a very punitive and moralistic attitude toward such inclinations. He has had a certain amount of back (sic) luck with regard to the place and time he was born with regard to social attitudes toward pedophilia."
He has had bad luck with regard to the place and time he was born with regard to social attitudes toward pedophilia. However, these are not reasons to condemn himself.
Keep him in the home
The removal of a pedophilic parent from the home "should only be seriously considered after all attempts at treatment of the pedophilia and rapprochement with the family have proven futile"
Help him protect himself
"He must learn to control himself if he is to protect himself from the Draconian punishments meted out to those in our society who act out their pedophilic impulses."
Help him forget about it
Therapy with the father should not be spent focusing on the primary problem (I.e., sexual molestation). Instead, therapy should be spent "talking about other things" as the goal of therapy is "to help people forget about their problems"
Gardner on how society should respond to the widespread victimization of children
Take a more sympathetic view toward pedophilia
"One of the steps that society must take to deal with the present hysteria is to 'come off it' and take a more realistic attitude toward pedophilic behavior."
"The Draconian punishments meted out to pedophiles .go far beyond what I consider to be the gravity of the crime."
- Abolish mandated reporting of child sexual abuse.
- Do away with immunity for reporters of child abuse.
- Create federally-funded programs to assist those claiming to have been falsely accused of child sexual abuse.
- Keep pedophiles in the community
Child abuse allegations are the "third-greatest wave of hysteria" the nation has seen, following the Salem witch trials and the McCarthyite persecution of leftists.
"We are currently living in dangerous times, similar to Nazi Germany. Sexual abuse hysteria is omnipresent."
Who is to Blame for "Child Abuse Hysteria"?
People who voice negative feelings against pedophiles
"During their harangues against the 'perverts' who are the objects of their scorn, they often rise to a level of excitation that can readily be seen as sexual. . . . Psychological, such individuals are ever fighting to repress their own unacceptable pedophilic impulses, which are continually pressing for release."
The legal system - including judges
"There is no question that abuse cases are "turn ons" for the wide variety of individuals involved in them, the accuser(s), the prosecutors, the lawyers, the judges , the evaluators, the psychologists, the reporters, the readers of the newspapers, and everyone else involved - except for the falsely accused and the innocent victim .. Everyone is getting their 'jollies, ."
Judges
"too may have repressed pedophilic impulses over which there is suppression, repression, and guilt. Inquiry into the details of the case provides voyeuristic and vicarious gratifications .. Incarcerating the alleged perpetrator may serve psychologically to obliterate the judge's own projected pedophilic impulses."
Sexually inhibited mothers
"The mother is psychologically gratifying [her own sexually inhibited needs] with the visual imagery that the sex abuse allegation provides."
Greedy parents
"Many are victims of their greed, which is so enormous that they blind themselves to the psychological traumas they are subjecting their children to in the service of winning lawsuits that promise them enormous wealth."
Judeo-Christian principles
"It is of interest that of all the ancient peoples it may very well be that the Jews were the only ones who were punitive toward pedophiles.. Our present overreaction to pedophilia represents an exaggeration of Judeo-Christian principles and is a significant factor operative in Western society's atypicality with regard to such activities
THE AMERICAN PUBIC NEEDS TO KNOW
"ALIENATION" IS USED IN AMERICAN FAMILY COURTS EVERY. SINGLE. DAY. RESULTING IN OVER 2 MILLION AMERICAN CHILDREN BEING REMOVED FROM THE CUSTODY OF THEIR PROTECTIVE PARENT. In many parts of the country, Judges, Attorneys, Guardian Ad Litems, Custody Evaluators, Court Connected "Therapists", Supervised Visitation Centers, Police Departments and CPS Workers are ALL trained in some form of "alienation" theory or repackaged, more palatable form of dismissing children's reports of abuse and labeling the protective parent as "hysterical" or not credible. Protective parents believe that their children will be protected by our tax-payer funded institutions, instead they find themselves and their children in a dystopian sci-fi nightmare.
SILICON VALLEY IS THE HOTSPOT AND HEADQUARTERS OF PARENTAL ALIENATION
Mission Statement
MetooMoms brings to the American people the corrupt private truths hidden behind the walls of Family Court and it's associated institutions and individual bad actors.
MetooMoms goal is to expose corruption, leaders resign, and organizations shut down. We intend to bring about successful impacts at the local, state and national levels: ending federal funding of Family Courts who engage in misconduct and corruption and expose bad actors who seem to have forgotten their oath of office and role as taxpayer funded public servants - to protect children and to protect the constitutional and legal rights of all citizens.
MetooMoms does not advocate specific resolutions to the issues. Our goal is to inform the public of wrongdoing and allow the public to make judgments on the issues. We do NOT support most legislation. If the current bad actors were following the existing law, no new legislation would be necessary. A LIMITED, CONSTITUTIONAL GOVERNMENT with the civic engagement of the people, exposure and intolerance of corruption would resolve the Family Court Crisis. MOTHERS ENGAGED IN CIVIC PARTICIPATION AND OVERSIGHT OF PUBLIC AND PRIVATE INSTITUTIONS IS NO LONGER OPTIONAL, BUT A REQUIREMENT FOR THE PROTECTION OF OUR CHILDREN AND OUR FUTURE.
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Mission Statement
THE MISSION OF MetooMoms IS TO INVESTIGATE AND EXPOSE FAMILY COURT AND RELATED ENTITIES AND INDIVIDUALS CORRUPTION, DISHONESTY, SELF-DEALING, FRAUD, AND OTHER MISCONDUCT IN BOTH PUBLIC AND PRIVATE INSTITUTIONS THAT FAIL TO PROTECT CHILDREN, PROFIT FROM CHILD ABUSE AND VIOLATE THE LEGAL RIGHTS OF PARENTS IN ORDER TO ACHIEVE A MORE ETHICAL AND TRANSPARENT SOCIETY. ALSO ENGAGE IN LITIGATION TO: PROTECT, DEFEND AND EXPAND HUMAN AND CIVIL RIGHTS OF CHILDREN AND PARENTS SECURED BY LAW, SPECIFICALLY THE FOURTEENTH AMENDMENT RIGHTS TO A FAMILY, LEGAL PROTECTIONS REGARDING DOMESTIC ABUSE, ACCOUNTABILITY OF INSTITUTIONS WHO RECEIVE VAWA FUNDING; COMBAT AND DEFEAT CENSORSHIP OF REPORTING ON INSTITUTIONAL AND JUDICIAL ABUSE OF POWER; PROMOTE TRUTHFUL REPORTING; AND DEFEND FREEDOM OF SPEECH AND ASSOCIATION ISSUES INCLUDING THE RIGHT TO ANONYMITY.
MetooMoms Core Values
1. MORAL COURAGE - Courage is the virtue that sustains all others. We choose to overcome our fears.
2. WE ARE ALL LEADERS - Turning survivors corruption into leaders that achieve a more ethical and transparent society.
3. COLLABORATION - No one individual is alone. There is strength in unity.
4. RESILIENCE - Persistence and determination are omnipotent. Never, ever, ever give up. We don't let mistakes or setbacks discourage us. Don't let the pursuit of perfection be the enemy of the good.
6. MISSION DRIVEN - The best people are motivated by purpose. We are passionate and truly believe in our cause. We must be externally focused, not internally focused. NO mother or Child left behind. When freedom is violated for one, freedom is violated for all.
7. MAKE THE STATUS QUO DO THE IMPOSSIBLE - We move mountains. Failure is not an option.
8. THE TIP OF THE SPEAR - We report what major media covers-up. We do not shy away from conflict or litigation.
MetooMoms Ethical Values
(adopted from Project Veritas and adjusted for MetooMoms)
Rule #1 – Truth is paramount. Our reporting is fact based with clear and irrefutable video and audio content. Truth is paramount. We never deceive our audience. We do not distort the facts or the context. We do not “selectively edit.”
Rule #2 – We do not break the law. We maintain one-party consent when recording someone is inherently moral and ethical. We never record when there is zero-party consent. In areas where we are required to have consent from all parties, we seek legal guidance regarding the expectation of privacy’s impact on our right to record.
Rule #3 – We adhere to the 1st Amendment rights of others. During our investigations we do not disrupt the peace. We do not infringe on the 1st Amendment rights of others.
Rule #4 – The Zekman Test. The undercover investigations we pursue are judged by us to be of “vital public interest” and “profound importance.” The Zekman Test is our baseline. Undercover investigative reporting is necessary because, “...there’s no other way to get the story...” Whereas the Society of Professional Journalists allows for undercover techniques, if undercover techniques are necessary to expose issues of vital public importance; we believe they are not only allowed but required.
Rule #5 – We Protect the Innocent When Possible - Embarrassing private details are not to be investigated. We stay away from irrelevant embarrassingly intimate details about private citizens personal lives. We look for individual wrong-doing and judge its public importance. The irrelevant religious or sexual dispositions of our targets are not to be investigated.
Rule #6 – Transparency. Our methods and tactics must be reasonable and defensible. We use the “Twelve Jurors on Our Shoulder” rule. The work has to be done with such a degree of integrity that it can withstand scrutiny in both law and ethics. We are comfortable with transparency. We must be willing to be ready to disclose our methods upon publication.
Rule #7 – Verifying and Corroborate Stories – Evaluate impact on third parties and Newsworthiness of Statements Alone. We consistently consider the probable truth or falsity of statements, examine any reasons to doubt the veracity of underlying assertions and whether the assertions are newsworthy. When possible, we will confirm with our subjects that their statements captured on video are accurate and truthful. At the very least, we will give our subjects an opportunity to elaborate and/or respond. In all matters, we rely on the 1st Amendment to protect our ability to publish newsworthy items after our internal deliberations. On whether there is an obligation to ensure the veracity of statements made on video, 1.) consider whether the remarks may potentially impact an innocent third party. (Factors in support of releasing the content) and 2.)The Newsworthiness of the statement alone by itself. (Factors against releasing the content).
Rule #8 – Raw Video. In certain circumstances we may release the “raw” video to the press and or the public. But as a rule, we do not.
Rule #9 – Subject Anonymity. We investigate and question sources before promising anonymity. Once we confirm, we will do everything in our power to protect the identity of our confidential sources.
Rule #10 – Being Accountable. Admit mistakes and correct them promptly.
Rule #11 – We do not manufacture content. We do not put words in our investigative subjects' mouths. We do not lead the horse to water. Our purpose is to elicit truth.
Rule #12 - We Partner With Good Men. We are not in a battle against men. We expose corrupt men AND WOMEN who use their positions of power for profit at the expense of children.
Rule #13 – With Great Power comes Great Responsibility.